RE: The ParkFans Network: Site Updates & Changes
Alpen, this is not about saying positive or negative things. Constructive criticism is not always positive. In fact it can be very negative, but at least it helps to make things better.
Mazakman, I understand your concern and I believe that give the perfect opportunity for everyone to really try to understand the purpose and meaning behind reputation. I believe reputation gives a false sense of power to some members who seem to think the higher reputation, the more powerful they are.
Just as an example, when my reputation was lowered below another members, that other member publicly made it know that they felt more powerful than myself. This is something that is ridiculous. I honestly would just rather remove the number system altogether and just have an open spot for people to say, "Hey man you are an amazing poster!" or "Hey, that one post had lots of grammar mistakes, you might want to take a minute to review your posts for errors first."
The idea I have is turning Reputation into Member Feedback. I do realize that some people might try to leave comments that will try to change someone to their liking, but that is where the community comes in to play. If you are getting positive feedback from 10 people who are telling you that you have great well written posts, and one person saying your posts are not adding to the discussion, clearly that one person is trying to change you to their liking or they are trying to mess you up. In that case, I would just say ignore it. No one is obligated to take anything to heart when it comes to these things.
I truly feel like this is an opportunity to improve upon ourselves. I don't want people to think of me negatively, and I want people to tell me if they think of me negatively. I want people to tell me when I am doing things that might personally offend others. That way I can improve and become a better poster. If someone says I have terrible grammar, I'm going to start double checking my posts before posting.
I know I use terrible grammar as an example throughout this post, but this can apply to many things. Just to list a few they can be things like, being too sarcastic, being too mean/rude, instantly killing discussions, making non-obvious personal attacks, turning simple heated discussions into flame wars, posting randomly without ever adding to the discussion. Alpenghost is of course excused from most of this

but these are issues that we as members can solve.
Something that I believe Zachary said was they don't know how to moderate the forums. Bill sounds like a record every time he goes on his if nobody reports it, I don't know spiel. This is a way where we can moderate ourselves without constantly bugging moderators to intervene. Instead of instantly reporting someone, and they possibly get in trouble or face unnecessary consequences you can give them some tips or advice on how to not get in trouble.
Like wise, instead of 'Thanking' a post you can leave comment abut how awesome you think that post is. Personally, I would love it if we can change the word, 'Thanks' to 'Like' as I feel that is what it's really used for anyways.