RE: Fiends (Howl-O-Scream 2011)
Maybe I'm just too low-brow, beings that I'm from the "Jersey Shore" and all, but I really don't get what everyone's problem with this show is for one simple reason: MSR is WAY raunchier. Have any of you actually watched that show? It's filthy. (Also, awesome.) There's humping, bumping, grinding, licking, butt-grabbing, shimmying, rubbing, hair-pulling, crotch-to-face and crotch-to-crowd action... all sorts of things. I mean, vampires in themselves have a very sexual-innuendo-vibe about them, always have. I saw MSR 5 or 6 times this weekend, once from one of the front tables, and everyone in my group agreed it was way more sexually charged than anything in Fiends. Those witches and vampires are showing more skin than any nurse. We had a half-naked man in leather humping our table and vulgarly licking his lips at us. Not that we're complaining, but let's be fair. People take their kids to that show and I haven't heard any complaints.
I didn't see any masturbatory gestures in the five times I saw Fiends, but that could be simply because I was looking in the wrong direction. I don't think that needs to be in the show, nor should any actor be making inappropriate gestures/comments to anyone who is CLEARLY not of age. I'm only commenting on what I saw personally. The nurses and actors I saw didn't approach children, they focused on adults during their forays into the crowd. I also didn't see any actor target a child when they were dragging people out to dance. Kids got up or were taken by their parents, yeah, and they danced around and had a great time, seemingly thinking how cool it was to dance with the ladies with the pink hair or the mummy/vampire/werewolf. Parents had no issue with their kids doing the Time Warp... which is hilarious to me.
I think a recurring problem is parents forgetting that 6 year-olds don't think like an adult. I heard little girls saying how they wanted pink hair and boys thinking the monsters were cool and scary. No kid said they wanted to get spanked from behind by a werewolf or "examined" by a nurse (at least not in my earshot). If you're a 12 or 13 year-old boy, you probably thought "BOOBIES!" I'll give you that. Like someone said, if the parents start preaching/screaming/claiming to have been "violated," the kids will take notice. If they don't, the kids will think the dancing monsters/ladies with pink hair/crazy scientist are cool.
My mother and I spent the time between the 3pm and 4:30pm shows on Friday talking about Fiends and its content. Her opinion is that there is nothing in that show that would be offensive to a child because to a child, it's a bunch of monsters and people in costumes dancing around, nothing more. She put it this way. If you don't make a big deal out of alcohol, your kids most likely won't think it's a big deal when they grow up. We use this example because my brother and I were both allowed a little glass of wine at home at holidays or a splash of the adult pina coladas, things like that, growing up, and I rarely have more than a drink or two (my all-time high was 4 in one day, at BG, funny enough) and my brother doesn't touch alcohol at all. Our friends with uptight parents? Yeah, they party hard. If you don't make a big deal out of gestures and outfits, such as the dancing and costumes in Fiends, chances are your kid will grow up either not seeing the big deal or knowing the difference between acting/fantasy and reality. So no one jumps on me for giving "parenting advice," this is an opinion.
As far as the whole "Halloween - for kids or adults?" debate/question, I'll give you this. Go into a costume store. Look at the costumes. All of them. The teen-adult ones are almost all sexual. The little girl costumes? They get more suggestive every year. (Heck, look at ballet and cheer outfits kids wear every day.) Don't complain about a show like this when you can walk into Wal-Mart (or turn on a tv, anything) and see the same thing, or worse. To quote the cinematic masterpiece Mean Girls: "Halloween is the one night a year when girls can dress like a total slut and no other girl can say anything about it."